But while we are in these bodies, earthbound, time kinda rules us. I found this great quote today:
Everywhere is walking distance if you have the time. Steven Wright
And I had to laugh. If we take "time" out of our equations, doesn't it take away the stress? I know it does for me.
Time equals stress.
If it is 1:20 p.m. and you were supposed to be at work by 1:00 p.m., you may feel stressed.
If it is April 15 nearing midnight, you might be feeling stressed.
If it is your fiftieth birthday coming up on Sunday, you could be feeling stressed.
But if you work for yourself, and can claim any hours of the day (or night) to dive in, then you probably don't mind the delay one bit.
And if you filed your income taxes early, then 04.15 has no effect upon you.
Plus, once you are eternal, you won't be celebrating birthdays that end in zeros.
So take time out of the equation (as in, work for yourself and throw that alarm clock in the trash).
Or let time work for you instead of against you (like saving money monthly starting when you are young instead of waiting until you are sixty).
For me, that means no more trying to be a marketing guru or even just understanding today's particular trends, which change anyway.
I love my blogging. I love Pinterest. I have done both for a while now. I will continue with it.
And my intended readership will find my books via the passage of enough time. To me, marketing is trying to get there faster. Kudos to you who know how to work that system.
Why am I trying to hurry the process?
Yes, I will dance in my kitchen when I become a self-sustaining author. But I have (and love) my freelancing projects, which pay my bills.
So why would I choose to add stress to my day by trying to learn something that is forever changing and for which I am not adapted or have no natural inclination?
I'm surprised I'm just now realizing this. Ha!
So, I'm not gonna try anymore.
Marketing is a weak area of mine. I'm letting it go. I'm saving my attentions for those things I love doing and over which I have control: my writing process.
And letting time take over.
Denise Barker, author + blogger + copy editor