What an emotional word. And that's where I want your focus for a moment. On nebulous emotions, thoughts. I read a lot in the self-improvement literature and find confirmation of my own beliefs. Since I believe everything is created twice--first in the mind, second in the physical world--it would seem that we create wealth the same way. First in the mind.
So, your initial thought would be to DECIDE to be wealthy, whatever your definition of the word may be. Whether $10,000 a month or a year, or some figure higher or lower, go for it. Truly, finally, irrevocably take a stand. It surprises me the number of people who seem reluctant to choose. Simply pick one, if both ways seem equal. You can always go back and select the other if you don't like the results of the first.
No Godmother of Wealth is going to give you permission to seek after your desires, your goals, your dream life. You must do so. It takes some guts, maybe some life experience, to push us to do so. Maybe someone telling us we cannot possibly do that. In the absence of your own declaration, let me do it here for you. I give you permission to have the wonderful life you were created for.
The next step is to PROCLAIM that you are in charge of your life. After all, you would need to be in order to manifest the perfect life for you, right? Again, no one else is going to hand it to you. Even if you marry a monied person, would that individual share the funds with you or would that person support you emotionally, be able to read your mind on what you really want and need? A soul mate is still a separate entity and to expect one-hundred-percent compatibility is a fantasy ready to be refuted in reality, plus having a yes-man around all the time would be really boring in my opinion.
However, you can do all those things for yourself, without fear of voicing your dreams to a naysayer or faulty communication getting in the way of sharing those needs and wants to another. You must declare yourself President of your perfect life, Emperor of your empire, Excellency of your enterprise.
Then once you have comfortably settled into those two standards--with no negativity rebounding from your own internal editor--set about planning actions that lead directly to your dreams. Do them. Each day. Even small tasks lead to great victories. Keep at it. Persistence is part of reaching goals.
Don't discount the little steps on the way to greatness.
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Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Additional Thoughts re "I AM"
Thinking about yesterday’s blog made me remember two items I would like to add.
One, the Bible. I seek answers from a multitude of sources. Yet the Bible remains my personal ken on life. In fact, when I read most self-help books, I can match up many, many, many of their foundational messages to a paraphrase of a verse in the Good Book. It remains a resource for me, a benchmark, the raised bar to reach for.
Two, the “I am” statements. I wanted to clarify that you may speak your “I am” statements LONG BEFORE anyone else “sees” them in this current reality of space and time. Take me for example. I am an author. Prior to March 27, 2011, you would not have found any online e-books or print paperbacks bearing my name. Yet years before that I was creating tales of fiction. While my first remembered piece was a short, short mystery written as a homework assignment in seventh grade and I have written some other pieces since then, I first called myself an author about ten or twelve years ago. I had submitted a finished short story to a contest. I did not win. Nevertheless, that was a major event in my life.
Even so, my actual career shift and serious writing mode began years later in 2007 where I penned eight works-in-progress totaling over 350,000 words by October 2008. Only in 2011 did I later add my (currently) three nonfiction works. I continue to manifest new novels and self-help checklists as we speak.
Everything is created twice: first in the mind, then in physical form. That dressmaker’s pattern, that architect’s blueprint, that city planner’s projected new highway—all of them were "secrets" hidden away in your gray matter first, then a two-dimensional or 3-D model or pattern to go by that a few people were privy to before existing in the very public arena of reality. In that same way, I would suggest keeping your goals to yourself at first while you are incubating that new idea and then expose it only to a select few of the supportive people you know who maintain positive can-do outlooks. Then once it is a fait accompli, you can share your successful finished creation to the public.
So, keep in mind you must initially decide who you are, state your "I am" as your first step to becoming the new improved you and continue to act on that declaration. All that foundational work is unseen by onlookers. Like the roots of a plant are developed first before the blossom and fruit. Thereafter, once you are reaping the harvest from the thoughts and idea "seeds" you have planted, enabling you to grow into the fullness of your declared “I AM,” then other people will see it too. Don’t feel like a fraud for deeming it so initially.
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